In Love With A Greek Boy
Posted 21 October 2005 - 06:52 PM
I am not that mean... The warning for the smile was a joke between me and Uffe, who is an old friend.
Posted 23 October 2005 - 01:54 PM
You might be interested to know that I have the same problem. only contact via sms. He can send loads of messages one day then none for days with no reason why, and then back to several each day!! Who knows how the mind of the greek man works?? They are certainly very different with the way they are I dont think you are alone at all. We shouls start a new question for people who may have similar problems We can exchange advice!
thank you! I know that the season is ended now. My boyfriend has told me about he's new job. He wants to see me again, but i would like to see him on another island. I know, maybe it's hard for him, but i want to be sure and take all the time, and be very careful. If i can take the airplane, he can do the same, i think. It's only one hour for him, if he want to come to see me and talk. It's was not a problem for him, but it depends from his new work. Do you know what is a normal salary in Crete? And can they take holiday after the summer season, when they are working?
Posted 23 October 2005 - 07:06 PM
Posted 24 October 2005 - 08:07 AM
Do you know his name?
i know a greek man that has loads of gf and as we were there 2 showed up in the same week to suprise him he did seem upset wen 1 of his gf left but that nite he was all over other girls u mite not wana hear this!!but its true this was in hersonissos!!!
Posted 24 October 2005 - 12:51 PM
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Posted 25 October 2005 - 08:08 AM
his name is costa
Thx, it's not the same boy.
Posted 25 October 2005 - 02:54 PM
Posted 26 October 2005 - 01:31 AM
i dont know how good i will be at giving advice on a long distance relationship. i for one am totally against long distance relationships!!!! how hypocritical since i have been involved in one myself for nearly a year! the safest way, my dear girl, to be involved in a long distance relationship, is to have your own friends or family members near your man. that way you will be informed of his every move, wether you want to know or not.
not knowing anyone in the area, makes it IMPOSSIBLE to know what hes doing, and who hes doing it with NEVER trust a man! Greek, Italian, British... whatever... men are men and they will tend to stray.
i on the other hand have an advantage, my man hangs out with my cousins, and regardless that he informs me of his whereabouts..... so do my friends and cousins....
or else.... forget about it! i wouldnt have bothered with him!
Posted 26 October 2005 - 10:04 PM
It works out very well, especially since I speak Greek (his English is not too well). We are not having restrictions on each other as we are not seeing each other most of the year which means if we want we can date other people. Its the best way not to get hurt. Just when I am with him and he is with me other romances are taboe.
We have very deep feelings for each other and when I went back to Crete last month he had told everyone that I am the best and most beautiful girl in the world. EVERYONE has told me this, they said: "Oh I know everything about you and what a wonderful girl you are!" Now he is studying in Heraklion as he doesn't want to work on the beach anymore.
I can just give you the piece of advice to be really careful, these Greek boys meet a lot of girls and they know perfectly what girls want to hear. I know guys that are "professionals" on dating tourists!
Posted 28 October 2005 - 07:42 PM
long-distance... bad news! period!
Posted 31 October 2005 - 09:52 AM
What was the name of the hotel where he was working and what is he studying now? Is it easy to change from work?
Posted 31 October 2005 - 11:23 AM
Where is "your" guy from?
You are welcome to send me a pm or email if you want more information on this topic.
Posted 10 December 2005 - 07:23 PM
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Posted 11 December 2005 - 05:56 PM
Maybe you're right, but we have already contact for 6 months and he wants to see me again, in my country. So i don't think that he's playing with me, but you never know.
So did you sort anything out now?